It seemed like something impossible to me. I deeply believed a person could only be one kind of romance. Either a Karmic or a Twin Flame and never even cross my mind that they were capable of transforming. From personal experience I had not witnessed a romance that had transformed, probably because I had not remained in a relationship long enough to see it flourish. It takes time even years for a relationship to pass some stages that come before you can see the great results of all the effort and time invested. After experiencing firsthand so many trials in a relationship that seemed Karmic to me, I did not give up on it, my heart never did at least. My brain would say, ” I’ve had enough” but my heart said “hold on a little longer”. It was my heart who had my back all along, we never know how close we are to the great gratifying results unless we don’t give up. These are the steps to turn a Karmic relationship into a Twin Flame:
- Speak in love language
- Make your needs known
- Be open to new things
- Be vulnerable
None of these tips worked before for me when I read them in relationship books, until after I was able to eliminate my negative thought patterns and stubborn emotional responses. I was able to make changes in my subconscious mind that allowed me to mold it into my new personality. I did this with night audios from Manifestation Magic, here is the link. I hear one audio every night before bed and I was finally able to achieve the love relationship I always dreamed of having. One with a deep connection and solid commitment to each other that makes a relationship stable and allows for growth and lots of fun.
Speak in love language
When you learn your partners love language, you show them love in a way they feel connected to you. It may not do much for you emotionally, but It sure does for them. They feel you care deeply about them and that helps them start trusting you will be there to fulfill their needs emotionally. Once they feel secure they start to open up to you and that is when they start to share their true feelings and make themselves vulnerable to you. That is the climax for a relationship, being vulnerable with each other, is what makes a relationship have a deep connection that follows to committed.
Make your needs known
Just like you speak their love language to help them feel connected to you, it is paramount to also feel connected to them yourself. That is why you have to speak up, and let them know exactly how you pensive love. Let them know which is your love language, in other words what actions make you feel connected to them emotionally. They will feel inspired to speak your love language if you lead by example and first fulfill their emotional tank. Having them feel fulfilled will make them grateful and inspired to try to do the same for you in return. It is a huge mistake to sit and wait for the other person to fulfill our emotional needs when we are not setting the example and doing anything to inspire them to do so.
Be open to new things
When you make your love language known and let them know what actions make you feel connected emotionally. It is very likely that your partner will try to use different method that are similar to what you request but not exactly how you expect it. That means you have to be open-minded and trust the process. Let them show you a new way that is similar to what you request, you will find it surprisingly delightful. It is flattering that they try new ways to please you and connect with you so sit back, relax and enjoy the ride. Let yourself feel the moment and connect, connect, connect with them.
Yes, it can be scary. But not with the right person, the partner who has shown you that will be there for you deserves to see your unfiltered version of you. You want to let them know how you feel and be open and vulnerable. This will help so much to create a deep connection and sustain it. When you are so open and vulnerable, they have no choice but to feel compelled to do the same in return. Sharing to each other your deepest thoughts, emotions, dreams, passions and aspirations is priceless. It is the most beautiful part of a relationship, that deep bond that makes you feel so secure and at ease.
For these reasons, the good parts of being in a relationship with a deep bond do not give up in the early stages of a relationship. It is important to stick through the rough patches in order to grow enough to see and enjoy the easy breezy stage that requires nothing from you. Except to sit back and enjoy it as if it were a movie. All great effort come to a point of reward. So does romance. Don’t give up, so soon!
Written by Adilene