It seemed like something impossible to me. I deeply believed a person could only be one kind of romance. Either a Karmic or a Twin Flame and never even cross my mind that they were capable of transforming. From personal experience I had not witnessed a romance that had transformed, probably because I had not remained in a relationship long enough to see it flourish. It takes time even years for a relationship to pass some stages that come before you can see the great results of all the effort and time invested. After experiencing firsthand so many trials in a relationship that seemed Karmic to me, I did not give up on it, my heart never did at least. My brain would say, ” I’ve had enough” but my heart said “hold on a little longer”. It was my heart who had my back all along, we never know how close we are to the great gratifying results unless we don’t give up. These are the steps to turn a Karmic relationship into a Twin Flame:

  1. Speak in love language
  2. Make your needs known
  3. Be open to new things
  4. Be vulnerable

None of these tips worked before for me when I read them in relationship books, until after I was able to eliminate my negative thought patterns and stubborn emotional responses. I was able to make changes in my subconscious mind that allowed me to mold it into my new personality. I did this with night audios from Manifestation Magic, here is the link. I hear one audio every night before bed and I was finally able to achieve the love relationship I always dreamed of having. One with a deep connection and solid commitment to each other that makes a relationship stable and allows for growth and lots of fun.

 

Speak in love language

When you learn your partners love language, you show them love in a way they feel connected to you. It may not do much for you emotionally, but It sure does for them. They feel you care deeply about them and that helps them start trusting you will be there to fulfill their needs emotionally. Once they feel secure they start to open up to you and that is when they start to share their true feelings and make themselves vulnerable to you. That is the climax for a relationship, being vulnerable with each other, is what makes a relationship have a deep connection that follows to committed.

 

Make your needs known

Just like you speak their love language to help them feel connected to you, it is paramount to also feel connected to them yourself. That is why you have to speak up, and let them know exactly how you pensive love. Let them know which is your love language, in other words what actions make you feel connected to them emotionally. They will feel inspired to speak your love language if you lead by example and first fulfill their emotional tank. Having them feel fulfilled will make them grateful and inspired to try to do the same for you in return. It is a huge mistake to sit and wait for the other person to fulfill our emotional needs when we are not setting the example and doing anything to inspire them to do so.

 

 Be open to new things

When you make your love language known and let them know what actions make you feel connected emotionally. It is very likely that your partner will try to use different method that are similar to what you request but not exactly how you expect it. That means you have to be open-minded and trust the process. Let them show you a new way that is similar to what you request, you will find it surprisingly delightful. It is flattering that they try new ways to please you and connect with you so sit back, relax and enjoy the ride. Let yourself feel the moment and connect, connect, connect with them.

 

Be vulnerable

Yes, it can be scary. But not with the right person, the partner who has shown you that will be there for you deserves to see your unfiltered version of you. You want to let them know how you feel and be open and vulnerable. This will help so much to create a deep connection and sustain it. When you are so open and vulnerable, they have no choice but to feel compelled to do the same in return. Sharing to each other your deepest thoughts, emotions, dreams, passions and aspirations is priceless. It is the most beautiful part of a relationship, that deep bond that makes you feel so secure and at ease.

 

Conclusion

For these reasons, the good parts of being in a relationship with a deep bond do not give up in the early stages of a relationship. It is important to stick through the rough patches in order to grow enough to see and enjoy the easy breezy stage that requires nothing from you. Except to sit back and enjoy it as if it were a movie. All great effort come to a point of reward. So does romance. Don’t give up, so soon!

 

Written by Adilene

 

12 thoughts to “CAN A KARMIC ROMANCE TURN INTO A TWIN FLAME ROMANCE?

  • Evelyn Kimball

    Hi Adilene,

    Very good thoughts about love and relationship.Yes meeting someone and knowing each other well is actually a lifetime process.  Spending time with each other is the process of getting to know more what you like and what you dislike.  If you find yourselves agreeing to most everything that you do together is a very good sign you will have a very good and healthy relationship.  There is also give and take and making sure it is happening in a relationship. When a couple decided to settle down, you will go through a lot of adjustment and learning more about each other. Both should be prepared to go through a long lasting relationship.  Your article is a very good read for people in a relationship, things to ponder on, etc.  Thank you for a thoughtful article.

    Evelyn 

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    • Adilene

      Evelyn,

      Thank you for sharing your opinion on this subject, it is greatly appreciated.

      Adilene

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  • Kevin Hyland

    Adilene,

      What a great piece to read. You have laid out exactly what it takes to make a relationship work. I felt very relaxed, and at peace reading it. 

       Within a relationship it takes work on both parties to make sure the needs of each other are taken into consideration. We both must feel loved, engaged, and wanted. If you put in the effort to make your partner feel loved, and they do not fulfill your needs it can be very frustrating. Each party must make the effort to be engaging so that your heart will feel full. 

       Being vulnerable is one of the hardest parts of any relationship. We go through like getting hurt time, and time again. We build walls to protect ourselves so we don’t make the same mistakes. We must not build these walls because not every relationship is the same unless we allow it to be the same. We must communicate what we want in the relationship, what our expectations are, what we will give in return. We must also listen to our partner because they two have been hurt in the past, and we must not cause the same pain they felt in the past. 

       Great post. I really enjoyed reading it. It made me reflect on what I can do better.

    Kevin

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    • Adilene

      Hi Kevin,

      It is very soothing to my soul to hear that you feel relaxed and at peace with my writing. It is truly my main goal when I write and I am so ecstatic to know that I have been able to accomplish that. My goal is to connect with readers, beyond a superficial level. That can only be achieved when you write having your audiences best interest at heart. Also, when you are not afraid to show your self without filters and not shying away from others seeing who you are as a person. Your deepest thought and emotions, the type of thoughts others feel but never dare to say out loud. It happens to me often with comedians, they joke about things I would have not thought of sharing with others at times.

      It is so dear of you to share with us your opinion on this relationship post, your points are very touching and genuine. I just added a subscription box in my blog, you can now be updated on any new posts I write.

      Thank you,
      Adilene

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  • Edwin Bernard

    There is a saying first seek to understand and then to be understood. I like how you teach that one person needs to make the first move to understand how ones partner needs to be loved. Usually that is the man. Are there situations where this could be reversed? 

    It makes total sense that when one partner deeply feels the other is going all out to understand them first, it shows how much they care. 

    Do you feel that in most relationships there usually is one partner who has to yield more often than the other to maintain an harmonious relationship? This is after commitments are made. 

    Thanks for a very thought provoking article about love relatoonships.

    Edwin

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    • Adilene

      Hi Edwin,

      Nothing is written in stone for who does what first. It just depends on where each person stands, emotionally. Sometime one person is not ready to commit and will not take the time to investigate the other persons needs. It could also be that one person in the relationship was deeply hurt in the relationship and is more focused on healing than looking to please the other partner.

      After the couple is committed, there is always a need for balance. It is not only one person who puts more effort in the growth. It depends on what each one is going through, at times one is going through some emotional crises caused by external factors outside the relationship. When this happens one partner has to be patient, and will be needing to give more. When the partner recovers, the balance can be regained. There will be times of perfect harmony and also times when one is weaker and needs extra tender love and care. The point is to be a united team, that is always there for each other. Without keeping score, but keeping in mind to put self care first in order to help the other person if needed.

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  • Joseph Stasaitis

    Many great insights in your article on relationships. Fortunately, I have met my soul mate or maybe even twin flame a few years back. I am so grateful that this person has shown up in my orbit, and it was just at the perfect time. It took me the time necessary to grow into the person who was worthy enough to have such a wonderful being in my life. Over the past twelve-plus (12+) years we have certainly had our ups and downs in terms of moving through our stuff as we developed the bond based on unconditional love. Each day is an opportunity to increase that bond by staying aware of our thoughts and feelings on a moment-to-moment basis and be willing to admit when we were wrong and made a mistake. A sincere apology is good. 😎  Thanks for your meaningful article.

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    • Adilene

      Hi,

      I am grateful to hear you found my article insightful and meaningful. I loved the use of the word orbit, in your expression. It is a way of thinking that I try to visit often lately. I like to think of the effect I have with my energetic frequency in a more detached view from just the small perspective of our daily surroundings. Instead. I like to think of how I influence others on a global level with my actions and with the energy I put out into the world.

      It was delightful to hear your story, because I feel reciprocated in terms of sharing so openly personal experiences.

      Thank you,
      Adilene

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  • Lawrenzo

    Hey Adilene,

    It is very true that when it comes to love and relationship there are many factors at play. Being open, considerate and true are truly fundamentals of building on any relationship.

    Learning about your partner love language really does go a far way. Being sensitive to the ones you love more frequently does help to foster better and richer growth within a relationship.

    I look forward for say the need to be an attentive listener as well as a proactive one. That could be one to dive deep into for sure.

    All the best Adilene, thank you.

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    • Adilene

      Hi,

      I appreciate your input about this topic and the area you will look forward to improve in your personal experience.

      Thank you,
      Adilene

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  • Dave spear

    I agree that it takes time to develop a romance and a relationship/ It can take months sometimes years to do so. I aslo think that pepople must be compatible and alos show some sense of vulnerabilty.Alos trust in each other must be part of the equation/ Faithfulness to each other is important to this ongoing status/.

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    • Adilene

      Hi,

      Thank you for sharing with points you agree from the post. Also, for sharing your perspective of what others factors play an important part in a lasting relationship.

      Thank you,
      Adilene

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